Either he's being really forward with you or that "thinking of you" text was only sent to you because he wasn't paying attention.4.
You get a text that seems like it was meant for someone else.
And I am sorry if this goes right against the feminist grain, but it is nearly always the woman because that's the way we are made.
If you're honest and say, “I just want a friends-with-benefits situation,” you're seen as an assh*le or pervert.
But if you lie and put on a big show with dinner dates and flowers, then completely drop the other person after you hook up, you're an even assh*le because you weren't honest about what you wanted.
But if he's describing himself as an "entrepreneur" and refuses to get more detailed or refers to his job situation as "complicated" instead of being up front, that should be a red flag. Either he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to be spotted out with another woman in his hometown, he doesn't see a future with you and doesn't want you knowing where he lives just so he can keep his distance, or he's basically a hoarder and he doesn't want you to see the state his place is in.
If he doesn't have a job, it's understandable that he won't want to lead with that, but if he won't even elaborate when pressed, he either (1) does something shady as hell for a living or (2) is just fine with lying a lot.14. It's one thing if he's being a gentleman and doesn't want you to make a long drive out to see him.